It may not seem like, it, you you have made a Big step in knowing that its not exactly what he is doing that makes you frustrated, but that your not doing it together. That is a HUGE key to getting thru this 'Life'! It doesnt make the hurt go away,trust me that i know... But just the being aware that its not Him your ticked with, its the situation. As for the only spending half of the next 30 years together.... i beileve thats quite incorrect, and he is only trying to prepare you for worst case, which may Never happen. Jay told me the same... 'he'll be away alot, the schedual changes constantly, ect ect ect'..But he isnt always gone. With T being a clerk... you will have it much better off then i do! Clerks generally work 8-4. Its not likely that he will be working the 4am-11pm hours that Jay does quite often... or runs to Ottawa being gone for a few days, ect... having to go to the Airport on Saturdays messing up our plans.... And he wont be away on courses that often. Once he gets 'home' the waters will settle! Its just getting to that day.... Big squishy Hugs. Min
It may not seem like, it, you you have made a Big step in knowing that its not exactly what he is doing that makes you frustrated, but that your not doing it together. That is a HUGE key to getting thru this 'Life'! It doesnt make the hurt go away,trust me that i know... But just the being aware that its not Him your ticked with, its the situation.
ReplyDeleteAs for the only spending half of the next 30 years together.... i beileve thats quite incorrect, and he is only trying to prepare you for worst case, which may Never happen. Jay told me the same... 'he'll be away alot, the schedual changes constantly, ect ect ect'..But he isnt always gone. With T being a clerk... you will have it much better off then i do! Clerks generally work 8-4. Its not likely that he will be working the 4am-11pm hours that Jay does quite often... or runs to Ottawa being gone for a few days, ect... having to go to the Airport on Saturdays messing up our plans.... And he wont be away on courses that often. Once he gets 'home' the waters will settle! Its just getting to that day....
Big squishy Hugs.
Min